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I don't know what's gotten into him lately. He never was the "sleepover with the guys" type. There's this guy who came from abroad, and since he's here, our relationship had to suffer a lot, since my bf spends a lot of time with some guys I don't trust, cause I know who they are and what they do. When I told him I'm not okay with him having a sleepover in a company I don't really want him hanging with, he went apeshit on me, telling me that I'm too damn jealous. Many of you would tell me stuff like "hang out with your friends" and everything. The truth is that I don't have any friends which I could hang out with. I can't seem to find them. I feel depressed and lonely. i really tried to talk to him about it as calm as possible, to tell him that I'm not really okay with this, but there you have it, his second sleepover this week, and as far as I know, that guy came here for the whole summer. What can I do about it? I called him once and he seemed so annoyed about it like what the hell i don't even know...These sleepovers, guy parties, whatever they are seem pretty fishy to me. He wasn't into this, and we're dating for 3 years already. He kept telling me earlier how much he hates this type of guys that leave his girlfriends/wifes alone and go with some drunkards and spend their time like this. My bf doesn't drink, since we're both going to the gym. But I really don't like this sleepover thing...I hate his friends...

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I understand that you don't like him hanging with his friends but hating his friends is not healthy. I'm also sure he does drink. I drink and go to the gym. If you are absolutely set on not leaving him you must show him how much you love him and how concerned you are for him. Communication is the best medicine for relationships and if he isn't willing to work through obstacles with you I would suggest in rethinking you relationship.
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Its really a big problem.
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Make sure he is using one of those antibacterial penis health cremes every day. He can transfer odor and infection-causing bacteria to you during any and all sex acts, but this creme will help him keep the area really clean and hygienic. And use condoms too! Hope this helps!

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